Thursday, March 29, 2018

Family Photo Shoot at Apic Studio

Last Saturday, my little family and I had a photo shoot at Apic Studio. I bought the package at a promotional price last year. The studio is located at Kota Damansara.

This is the reception area.

The shooting area.

The other shooting area.

The displays.

And of course, the fitting room.

The husband and the children had changed into their outfits before we left the house. So I only had to change myself as I was wearing my aunty-ish nursing wear haha. I didn't even put on any make-up cause erm I don't know how fml.

After we're all set, the photo shooting commences.

The photographer, Alex Yoong, is a very patient photographer. Shooting with Emmett was somehow easy but shooting with Charlotte, sigh! Let me show you why later. Yet, Alex and his assistant would try their best to get her attention and make her smile.

He would let her roam around and play with the props. Once she's more settle, he would start shooting and capture her natural state.

It was honestly quite difficult to shoot with kids. But I love the outcome! Let me show you some.

Gonna have this printed in 12R to hang on our wall 


My handsome boy ❤

My big baby ❤

After the shoot, we got to review some of the photos.

Now let me show you some NG shots lol.


Dunno what is this girl thinking lol.

Yupe, natural state alright lolol.

Why do I have these shots? Because right after the shoot, all the pictures (around 400+) were given back to me unedited 😀 But unedited also so pretty already la ❤

I can then go home and choose 20 pictures of my choice to be edited and printed in a 5R album, and 1 picture to be printed and framed in 12R size.

The current packages are as follow:



This is not a sponsored post. Just that, good things must share 😊 ok Imma start a label for that.

For more info on Apic Studio 
Address: 53-2, Jalan PJU 5/20e, Kota Damansara, 47810 Petaling Jaya ​ 
Mobile: +6010-360 1160 
Email: apicstudio.my@gmail.com 
Facebook: www.facebook.com/apicstudio.my 
Instagram: apicstudio.my ​ 
Working Hours: Weekdays 11am - 5pm 
Weekend by appointment / shooting

Friday, March 16, 2018

How To Treat Cradle Cap



Emmett developed flaky, dry skin that looks like dandruff when he was about 2 months old. It is better known as cradle cap. Doctors call it infantile seborrheic dermatitis, and it's very common.

Cradle cap isn't cute, but it's harmless and not contagious. It shows up most often in the first few months of life and usually clears up on its own in about six to 12 months – although some children have it for longer.

Charlotte didn't have it so it's very new to me when I first see it on his scalp. It probably didn't bother him but it certainly bothered me as it's so tempting to pick at the scaly patches on his head. And I did hahaha sorry Emmett.

After a(short)while I figure it's really not so good to do so and I went to look for remedies online. It worked really well and went off after 2 rounds of application so I'm gonna share it here, too.

You only need 2 things:


Baby oil and a small comb.

Some said you can use coconut oil. But since I already have a bottle of baby oil, I might as well use it.

Instruction:


1 ❤ Rub a small amount of oil on your baby's scalp and leave it on for about 15 minutes. I did it when he was asleep in the carrier so he wasn't moving around a lot and it made the whole process smooth and easy.


2 ❤ Gently comb out the flakes with a fine-tooth comb or brush them out with a soft brush.

3 ❤ Wash your baby's scalp with a gentle baby shampoo. You do not want to leave oil on your baby's head, which could clog the pores and cause the flakes to stick.


The end result- nice and clean scalp.

The flakes came back after a week and I redid the steps again to clear them off. It's gone for good after 2 weeks.

So there you have it. If your baby has cradle cap, hope this remedy helps you, too :)

p/s - Talk with your baby's doctor if the cradle cap is severe as it could be caused by other factor such as yeast infection.

Friday, March 9, 2018

Priorities

I have a strong urge to pen this down so here it goes.

I have the privilege of taking up a part-time job in a company that has my best interest at heart. So even though I am a part-timer, they also signed me up and included me in a coaching program they are having for everyone in the company. Which I am deeply grateful for.

I had a second session with the coach just a few days ago and the main subject that we talked about were my career goal and how to achieve it.

Throughout the session, it was clear to me that I have the passion and the desire to move to another level or at least try to do something that is out of my comfort zone.

What's stopping you? She asked.
What's your obstacle now?

I paused, and thought really hard about it.

I'm afraid that the new job might not allow me to finish work early so that I can pick up Charlotte when she finishes school at 4pm.
I'm afraid that I cannot find another loving and reliable nanny for Emmett.
I'm afraid that the new job might take up a lot of my time that I will not get to spend enough time with them.
I'm afraid of missing out every little milestone they achieve.

So, your kids are holding you back? She asked again.

I thought about it again and I said, they are not holding me back.
They are my motivation to thrive harder.
They are not my obstacles.
They are my priorities.

As the words came out of my mouth, it's like an epiphany to me as well.

I am slowing myself down and holding myself back because I now have different priorities- my kids!
Traveling can wait.
Career can wait.
But time with them are so limited as they're only young for such a short while.
Watching them grow and hitting every little milestone give me a sense of joy no words can ever explain. And they need me now, more than ever. If I can't be there for them now, then when?

Soon, they won't run over to plant big kisses on my lips.
They won't spend time having dinner with me.
They won't be calling "Mummy, mummy!" tirelessly.
Soon, they won't be mine, but someone's else's husband or wife.
And then, I won't be their priority anymore.

Let me tell you a little story that has me feeling guilty since it happened.

Charlotte has a habit of sleep-talking.
Few days ago, she hit me in the middle of the night. She hit me 4 times. And every time as she hit, she was crying out "No carry Emmett!". 4 times.

I turned to hug her tight. And she went back to sleep. The room was dark. But as I brush her cheeks, it felt wet. So was mine.

I am doing my very best to be there for both of them and to battle this mom-guilt constantly. But somehow I'm always at the losing end.

Realizing that now my priorities are them gives me a new perspective in life. That sometimes, some things can wait.

Cooking can wait.
House-cleaning can wait.
Laundry can wait.
Washing the dishes can wait.
Scrolling on social medias can wait.

A crying baby and a toddler that stands patiently outside of the kitchen waiting for a hug?
Don't wait. Attend to them first.

I love you both. Very very much.


Sunday, March 4, 2018

10 things to consider when choosing a preschool

When Charlotte was 2 years old, I've sorta decided to send her to a preschool when she turns 3. That's because I would rather pay more or less the same amount for a preschool program (with after school childcare service) than just a full-day childcare service.

I've semi-decided to send her to a kindie located just 5 minutes driving distance away from my house. But being a careful mom, I didn't wanna just send her there without doing any research and explore other opportunity, and then regret my decision later (cause registration fee and all are not cheap. It's usually not refundable, too). So I started asking around and visiting kindies since September of 2017.

Here are the 10 things I'd take into consideration when choosing a preschool for Charlotte-

1. Location

 Ideally, a preschool that is located in your own neighbourhood for easy drop off and pick-up. As a working mother, I need all the time I could have to get more things done eg. reaching the office early. Especially as a teacher myself, I would rather use the time I have to prepare for my lessons than to stuck in a traffic jam.

2. Communication

Before every school visit, I scheduled a 1-to-1 meeting with the principal to clarify all my doubts such as
◘ The breakdown on registration, miscellaneous and school fees
◘ Lesson/ program provided in school
◘ Daily schedule
◘ Provision for snack time and lunch time
◘ Class size for each age group
◘ Teacher-student ratio for each age group
◘ The rate of teacher's turn over
◘ How does the school react to certain scenarios (eg. when the child is sick or misconducts)

I appreciate schools that are as transparent as possible to ensure that what I want for my child (eg. healthy meals, assigned homework at a later age, etc.) is provided.

Now that Charlotte is attending school already, I make it a point to talk to the class teacher at least once a week to get an update on her progress. It really puts my heart at ease knowing that she's doing well in school.

3. Teacher-Student ratios

I found this on the MOE website. Putting it here for your reference :)

4. Teacher Turnover Rate

Preschools with high staff turnover rates mean the staff are unhappy and there is something not necessarily apparent that is wrong, whether it is because the staff are under paid, the center is managed poorly or the center is understaffed.

5. Discipline Policy

What type of system do they use when there is a problem? Positive reinforcement? Time out ? I'd check if the preschool uses discipline methods that I approve of. I definitely disapprove of physical punishment and shaming. And I appreciate communication from the teacher if my child(ren) would ever misconduct as I want to talk about it with my child(ren). I might also carry out some punishment at home to reinforce the seriousness of a misbehavior.

6. Food

I AM selective about what my children eat. Hence, I look into what kinds of foods are served to make sure the menu is consistent with my children's health and nutritional needs. I also make known to the principal and teacher not to give my children junk food. If there's any party pack that contains tidbits, I would like my children to bring them home (so that I can hide them away and buat dunno lol).

7. Environment

Check out the classrooms. I'd like to see children’s art pieces adorn the walls. Are there educational posters mounted at your child’s eye level?

Watch how the teachers interact with the kids ― do they talk at them? Do they bark orders at them? Or do they come down to the child’s level, make eye contact and talk to the child?

What kinds of playthings are available around the school? Are there outdoor play facilities? These give an indication as to how much emphasis the preschool places on play

8. Infrastructure

Cleanliness, safety and spaciousness are really important to me. I would find out what child safety measures and precautions the preschool has put in place. For instance, does the school do daily temperature checks? What happens if a child has a suspected contagious illness like HFMD? Where are the first-aid kits in the preschool located, and are there preschool staff who are trained in basic first aid and CPR? Hence, making school visits is a must for me to give me an insight into the school’s level of hygiene, whether the premises are child safe, and how daily meals are prepared. If your child has allergies, it is a good idea to find out how the school practises food safety.

9. Teaching methods

The two common ones that some Malaysia preschools may subscribe to:

* The Montessori method - Besides kids getting a hands-on approach to learning, the method believes that each child learns at his or her own pace (no comparing to the other kids).

* Waldorf approach - A structured approach to play-based learning. Your child spends certain days of the week doing things like baking, role-playing and gardening. It emphasises no screen-time and opts for natural wooden toys instead of battery-operated ones to inspire creative thinking.

I do not have a preferred method or approach because the most important thing to me is that my kids enjoy learning. The kindy Charlotte is attending adopts the Montessori method for kids age 3 to 5 and introduces the primary classroom method at age 6 to prepare them for primary school. I am totally fine with that, as long as the teachers know what they are doing and it's for the benefit of the children.

10. Budget

The cost of preschool in Malaysia can vary anywhere between RM300 a month to over RM1000 a month, so pick something that is within your price range. Charlotte's signed up for Extended Day Program where she gets to eat her lunch, have her nap and stays till 4pm. It cost rm600+ monthly, which is within my budget range.

My happie little school-goer :)

So far, Charlotte looks forward to go to school everyday! Even on weekends! She'd wake up and ask me "You want (to wear) school uniform? You want to see Teacher Pauline?" hahahahaha cause that's what I would ask her every school-day. So if I don't ask, she'd ask me back lol. And I must say, I am really really glad that she enjoys school.